- 1 month ago
I’m stuck with this dilemma and I could really use some advice. My boyfriend and I just got engaged after being together for 3 years. Anyways, we have been talking a lot about what we should do with my step dad, since he doesn’t want him at the wedding either. My parents were divorced when I was at a young age and my mom was remarried to my step dad who became an alcoholic and molested me on a regular basis. Thankfully it stopped when he confessed to my mom about what he was doing and begged for forgiveness but she didn’t divorce him. Ever since I have held resentment towards him and don’t know where to go from here. I have confronted my mom multiple times about how uncomfortable he makes me feel and he’s the reason I don’t come over very often, but its like she cant grasp what I tell her and just gets upset and cries.